As a staff or faculty member, you are in a good position to identify someone who may be emotionally distressed. You may be able to be a resource in times of trouble. Your expression of interest and concern may be critical factors in helping the student. You should also be able to alert the university so that an appropriate intervention can be made.
The Dos
- Speak with the student privately.
- Let them know you are concerned about their welfare.
- Express your concern in behavioral, non-judgmental terms.
- Tell them you are willing to help.
- Listen carefully to what they are troubled about.
- Help them explore options.
- Suggest resources.
- Make referrals to the appropriate campus department.
- Point out that help is available and seeking such help is a sign of strength and courage, rather than weakness or failure.
The Don'ts
- Don't promise confidentiality.
- Don't judge or criticize.
- Don鈥檛 ignore the unusual behavior.
- Don't make the problem your own.
- Don't involve yourself beyond the limits of your time or skill.